How to
Attract Woman by Not Buying Her a Drink at a Bar or Club
By
Teddy Shabba
One of the most common
scenarios you will see going on at a bar or club, is a man walking up to
a woman, introducing himself and a short time later offering to buy her
a drink. When attempting to attract woman this common scenario is
perhaps the worst one that any man can choose to put himself into.
Now, I am imagine that every
guy who has been to a bar or club often enough has either had success or
seen someone else have success with this scenario.
Yet, the problem isn't that
you can not succeed if you use it, but, that if you do succeed using it
then you didn't even need it in the first place and it kills any chance
that you had with women who you could have created attraction in.
As you may or may not know
already, before you even attract woman she has already decided if she
doesn't like you, is interested in you, or is indifferent to you. Now if
she doesn't like you there isn't much you can do about I you are just a
dead man walking. However, if she is interested or indifferent then you
still have got a fighting chance.
Lets pretend she is
interested; you introduce yourself and offer to buy her a drink and
haven't said or done anything to cause her to dislike you ye. She agrees
and in her mind she is thinking okay I like this guy and he likes me as
well.
Yet, even if you hadn't
offered to buy her a drink she would still be having the same
conversation in her head except instead of knowing you like her she
would begin to wonder if you like her which would cause her to be even
more attracted to you.
Now, let's pretend she is
indifferent; you introduce yourself and offer to buy her a drink without
doing or saying anything to create attraction or interest in her.
She might agree to the drink,
but, congratulations you have created a sense of disinterest in her for
you, in her mind she thinks I know that this guy is attracted to me even
though I don't like him at all and to top it off he is going to try and
bribe his way into me liking him by offering to buy my drink what a
loser.
What if instead you simply had
continue your conversation with her, now in her mind she is thinking, I
wonder what is up with this guy does he like me or not. In fact she may
become just curious enough where she allows you to create an attraction
because obviously you are different from all the other guys who come up
and simply offer to buy her a drink and that's it.
So as you can se there really
is no reason to buy a girl a drink if she likes you a drink isn't going
to change that fact, if she doesn't like you a drink isn't going to
change that fact, and if she is indifferent a drink can only cause her
to dislike you because now you are just some guy trying to pick her up.
Now use that money you are
going to save on drinks to improve your self so that you are the type of
man that can easily attract woman that are interested and
indifferent to you.