Foreplay
By Brad Masters
Contrary to popular
conception, foreplay does not start in the bedroom.
And, foreplay does not start a few minutes before you have sex.
If you want to become a
master of seduction and enjoy the powerful sexual experiences that this
can bring into your life, you have to understand that foreplay must
become an integral part of every moment of time that you spend with your
lover… each and every day… sex or no sex.
The seduction of a
woman begins with the first glance, the very first time you see each
other… and continues the moment a connection between the two of you is
made with the first spoken word.
Too often, in ongoing
relationships, both the man and the woman forget the importance of
seduction and fall into boring routines.
To keep a relationship
fresh and hot, a woman must understand the importance of sexual
playfulness and serious seduction, no matter how long she has been
together with her man.
And, every man must
devote himself to making his woman feel loved, desired, and essential to
his happiness, every minute of every day of their lives.
To forget this may mean
facing such dire consequences as divorce, marital infidelity, or at the
very least, an unsatisfying relationship.
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It is a fact that the most common
complaint women have about their man is that the only time he pays
romantic attention to her is “when he wants to f**k.”
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The second most common complaint is that
he does not take the time to get her properly in the mood… or to get her
hot enough to totally enjoy herself too… before he goes inside her.
The
third most common complaint is that once he does go inside her, it is
over far too quickly to quench her desire.
This also relates to the most common complaint of men as well:
Dissatisfaction with their own sexual performance.
In this chapter I will
discuss the importance of foreplay in getting your woman primed, wet,
and ready to receive your erotic attention and how to keep her that way.
And, in the chapters to
follow, I will go on to show you how to give your woman… and yourself…
the ultimate sexual experience.
Then, I will show you
the ancient art, now known to but a fortunate few, of being able to
experience multiple orgasms while maintaining an erection for as long as
it takes to completely quench your lover’s desire for penal
penetration—and your own.
In fact, one man who
learned these powerful lovemaking techniques reported that his woman
broke down in tears of joy and gratitude after her first “long ride” and
that their relationship has taken a sizzling turn for the better ever
since.
Sensitizing your body
A good start to
mastering the art of seduction is to learn how to sensitize your own
body. This will help you
give, and experience, the most possible togetherness and pleasure
whether locked in the throes of love, or when making those casual
connections in non-sexual situations that are an important component of
foreplay.
Many people believe
that all consciousness takes place in the brain.
This is not true.
It is true that the
brain is the center of the conscious mind that we experience as our
awareness and thought in everyday life.
And, it is true that
the brain is the center of our unconscious mind that takes care of all
of our automatic body functions, as well as stores all the reactive
patterns that we have been programmed with early in life… that determine
the many aspects of who we are, and how we feel about the world and
ourselves.
However, these same
types of “consciousness” cells found in our brain can also be found
throughout our entire bodies.
You’ve heard the
sayings “gut feeling” and “broken heart.”
The fact is that some emotions such as nervousness, love, and
fear are primarily felt in the stomach and heart area, rather than our
brains.
Moreover, we sometimes
have a better handle on the truth of a situation through our gut feeling
than through our conscious minds.
And, you’ve also heard
the saying that someone “thinks with his dick.”
Yes, as every man
knows, there is a great deal of primitive consciousness centered in your
testicles and penis. That’s
why sexual awakening caused by a visual or other sensual trigger
sometimes hits you hard in the back of your balls… or feels like an
electric jolt in your c**k.
The point is this:
In order to enjoy the ultimate possible pleasure of body-to-body
contact, we men must learn to use this consciousness to feel with every
inch and atom of our body and being.
Fortunately, this is very easily done.
It just takes awareness and a little practice.
Here is a quick little
exercise to give you an idea of what I am talking about:
1)
1.Right
now, shift your conscious awareness to your toes and the bottom of your
feet. Take a deep breath in
and hold it. You should be
able to feel the energy being pulled in through the bottom of your feet.
2)
2.Exhale,
and shift your conscious awareness to your ankles and thighs all the way
to your knees. Breathe in
and hold. You should be able
to feel a tingling awareness in your knees and thighs.
3)
3.Now
bring your awareness up your legs to your belly… take a deep breath and
hold. You should now be
feeling a conscious awareness in these areas, including your c**k and
balls.
4.Now
focus your awareness on your heart.
Breathe in, and feel the energy beginning to vibrate in and
around your heart chakra (energy center).
5)
5.Follow
through by focusing on your throat… and then on the very center of your
forehead… above and between your eyes.
6)
6.Repeat
the above exercise two more times right now.
This is all it will take you to master it.
Congratulations.
You have just completed your first exercise in the ancient
discipline known as Tantric Yoga—the art of harnessing mind and breath
to achieve heightened states of sexual ecstasy—as practiced in the
exotic realms of
Yoga, by the way, is
Sanskrit for discipline.
Hatha Yoga is the discipline of conditioning the body… Raja Yoga the
mind… and Tantric Yoga the discipline of mastering the art of
lovemaking.
Note:
Learning to center your consciousness in the center of your
forehead while you are around your woman, or out on the prowl, is an
absolute turn-on for the ladies.
I’m not sure why, but
it works unbelievably well.
Maybe it’s because the gals sense that you’re not thinking with your
dick.
And, while we’re on the
subject, looking into a woman’s eyes will get you one hell of a lot
further with her than staring at her breasts, especially during your
first encounter.
Seems kind of crazy,
especially when you run into a woman in a slinky low-cut dress designed
to show off her cleavage.
Maybe it’s some kind of test.
All I know is that a woman’s eyes are the window to her soul… and
quite possibly… the keys to her “kingdom.”
Try the above two bits
of advice, and let me know what you think.
Now comes the time to
put your newly heightened sensitivity into practice.
You can try this out with your lover’s conscious knowledge, or as
a surprise to her.
If you don’t have a
lover, find a lady friend who may be willing to help you sharpen your
seduction techniques. But,
be very careful with such “play” unless you are totally willing to
follow through with what may happen next.
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When you next approach your lover, be
sure to move slowly, not invading her space until she is aware of your
presence.
Approaching her from
behind is always nice (but not necessary).
Reach out and brush her hair.
Then slowly turn her around and gently pull her into your arms,
achieving as much full-body contact as possible, with your arms wrapped
around her, but not holding her too tightly.
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Now, close your eyes and “breathe her in”
taking a deep breath and holding it.
Feel her entire being with every inch of your body.
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Now, making sure that the palms of your
hand are upon her back, pull her closer against you (still gently)… and
breathe out slowly while focusing your attention on your hands where
they are in contact with her body.
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Now, eyes still closed, breathe in again,
once again feeling her with your entire body, only this time, turn your
face into her hair and neck, taking in her scent and essence through
your nose.
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If you feel her relax into your arms
during the above embrace, now may be the time for a soft kiss to her
neck, before releasing her, slowly and gently.
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As you release her, open your eyes and
stare into hers. If she
tilts her head back for a kiss, keep it soft and gentle, using the
kissing technique that follows a little further on in this chapter.
Remember, gentle is the
key word here. No tight
squeeze or pelvic grinding allowed.
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If you sense that she is tense in your
arms, forgo the kisses, and release her softly, before going on about
you business, with not a hint to her that there is anything wrong.
Her reaction will
improve once she realizes that every time you touch her romantically, it
is not just about getting a quick “poke.”
Oh yes, the very next
time you make love, practice these full-body consciousness techniques
instead of just staying focused on the pleasure you are feeling through
your c**k.
You will be amazed at
how much your sexual ecstasy is increased—and hers as well.
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From Brad Masters new
bestseller for men: How to Drive
Your Woman Wild: The Masters Method.
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