3 Tricks
To Improve Your Dating
By
Kurt Dight
There are simple rules you can
follow to make a woman you take on a date more impressed by you. Doing
so will drive her attraction through the roof, and is essential if you
want to date successfully. If you are having trouble with dating women
lately, then this article has your name on it. Read on to put an end to
your dating troubles.
They say you shouldn't judge a
book by its cover. But people do everyday. Actually, it's useful because
it's all we have to go by. Women judge men by a lot of things, and
especially how they dress. If you ask a woman out on a date, you must
dress appropriately. Dress down too much, and it shows you don't have
class. Overdress, and not only will it show her you are unobservant, but
it will also make her feel embarrassed.
It's easy to fix this
situation. Simply find a friend who is a woman and has a sense of style.
Set a budget on what you'd like to spend. Now let her take you out
shopping, and hunt for a mixture of different formal and casual wear.
Let her make the decisions, not you. You will be left with an array of
classy clothes that fit well on you. Also, women have this intuition
about what looks right on a man based on his personality. If you find
the right girl with a sense of style, she will help you express exactly
who you are in a stylish way that women will find attractive.
Aside from dress, being well
groomed and hygienic are simple things, but go a long way.. I'm not
saying every man should be clean and well cut. If this doesn't fit in
with you, you will turn her off because it communicates with her that
you are trying too hard to win her approval. Women don't like to be
manipulated into liking a man based on a manufactured persona he
displays. Depending on your personality, you either need to show her you
have your own style, or that you are aware that style is important, but
you're above fitting the normal stylish mold.
Notice this doesn't say to be
a slob who is too lazy to shave. That doesn't communicate you are above
"stylish trends". It communicates you are lazy and don't care what you
look like. Here's a clue: women don't find that attractive.
That's the outer game. Let's
work on the inner game. I will give you the best piece of advice that
transformed my dating life. Most men work at impressing a woman and
winning her approval. This creates tension. Instead, it is better to
communicate to her that you don't need her approval because you are
comfortable with who you are and what your reality is. Women find this
far more attractive than someone who comes across as needy. Trying to
impress her shows her your are needy for her approval.
One other thing to consider:
Make sure she understands she needs YOUR approval as much as you need
hers. You are just as selective as she is. Women enjoy feeling special.
If your only means of approval is that she's a woman and she's
interested in you, you will not make her feel special. Instead,re-frame
the whole date in your mind. Think of it as a way of going out to find
if she is someone who is worthy of sharing your reality with you. This
will automatically help you come across as someone who is more
confident, in control and desirable than the average men. It will also
diffuse the pressure normally associated with dating.