Ask Her Out
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By
Arkady Itkin
Too many guys approach asking a
woman out with a very bad frame of mind.
In fact, their frame of mind is the exact opposite from that
which is necessary to attract a woman and evoke her interest.
Too many men believe that
asking a woman out is the same as actually "asking" for something. They
believe that if a woman agrees to go out with them, she will be doing
them a favor.
This kind of mindset makes men
come across as very unattractive and insecure when asking a woman out.
"Would you like to go out sometimes?" is about the worst way to
ask a woman out.
It begs for a big "No!"
From now on, you must start
believing that when you ask a woman out you COMPLIMENT her.
And indeed, you flatter her
because by asking her out you are saying that you like her.
Once you truly believe that by
asking any single, available woman out you are doing a nice gesture,
your entire posture and your attitude about this will change.
Just as important is the way in
which you ask a woman out.
In fact, it's a much better idea not to ask a woman out, but
INVITE her out.
In other words, frame your
words as a declarative invitation and not a question.
Thus, instead of saying: "Would
you like to go out with me?" say "Hey, I am available this Thursday
evening.
I know this cafe near this
park. Let's go down there on Thursday evening, grab something work and
sweet to drink and take a walk in the park together.
It will be fun." This will make you come across as a much more
confident and thus a much more attractive guy.