Use The
Boyfriending Technique To Get Laid Fast
I'm going to reveal an important comfort-building technique I call "Boyfriending."
In a nutshell, there's something you can do that's usually done ONLY by
a woman's boyfriend.
If you do it too, it's a way of getting under a woman's radar and making
her comfortable enough around you so that she'll be receptive to sex
without making you wait.
You see, in order for a typical woman to have sex with a man, she must
have feelings of comfort. It is not enough for her to simply feel
attraction for the guy.
Let's say you meet a girl at a
Around
Around this time, a lot of guys get confused about how to advance the
interaction forward. Clearly the goal is to get laid, but the roadmap is
often muddled.
Usually the night ends with the woman saying something like, "I had
great time meeting you. Call me. Bye!"
Often, the need for comfort is why women like to make guys wait before
sex.
(If the guy's lucky, it might be only three dates, but with a lot of
women, the guy can be made to wait for months.)
Fortunately, there's a way to shortcircuit that barrier. I call it the "Boyfriending
Technique."
If you watch couples who are in close relationships, you'll notice an
interesting phenomenon. The man and woman are extremely comfortable
touching each other; so much so that they'll even do seemingly gross
things like brush sleep ("eye boogers") out of each other's eyes.
It's a behavior that's only done by people who are completely
comfortable around each other. Certainly when you are in a relationship
where you can brush sleep out of a woman's eye, you've long since passed
the point where the two of you are comfortable having sex.
Catch my drift? You can use this as a psychological weapon to make the
woman feel more comfortable around you.
In mid-conversation, tell her to hold still and close her eyes. Pretend
there's sleep in her eye, and make her believe that you just brushed it
off.
Later, after the two of you finish eating and leave the restaurant,
again tell her to hold still. With your finger, brush off an imaginary
piece of food from her lower lip.
The net result of the Boyfriending Technique is nuclear. First, it
sub-communicates that the two of you are very comfortable around each
other.
Second, it involves you touching her face, bringing your heads closer
together and progressing towards a make out session.
Third, in the case of you touching her lower lip, you're in fact
touching an erogenous zone. That's right... a woman's lower lip has a
high concentration of nerve endings. Stimulating her lower lip makes her
body release sex hormones.
Make the Boyfriending Technique a part of your dating arsenal, and
you'll find more success than ever before. You may just be having sex
within several hours instead of having to wait several months.
John Alexander is author of
"How to
Become an Alpha Male" ... a seduction success guide for men. Learn
the 7 Step Seduction System that takes you from saying "hello" to a new
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