Flirting
Woman - Watch for Tiny Cues
By
James V
A flirting woman usually uses a
wide repertoire of flirting techniques that are subtle and sometimes
hard to recognize. Long and seductive stares or lots of smiles, or
exaggerated laughter are some cues a flirting woman may give to the
object of her interest. One more sign of flirting is excessive
conversations which may indicate her flirtatiousness by the choice of
her words, or body language use.
Women Are Not As Forthright As
Men
While a man may be more
forthright in his flirtations, the woman is generally a lot more subtle.
Hence, it is not always easy to detect the physical cues, which are less
than obvious, mostly. Also, men are not accustomed to receiving a lot of
attention from women; so a flirting woman would be somewhat harder to
detect.
A flirting woman will generally
send a lot of tiny cues, indicating her interest, but she will not make
the first move. In case she does, it is an obvious sign that she is more
than just interested. This may not lead to a woman coming right out and
begging for attention as a majority of women would not place them in
such a position. The clearest signal a flirting woman would give is that
of an extended look or by staring. While in some countries staring is
considered to be offensive, it is a powerful flirting technique for
women, and actually men love it! Extended looks are very appealing for a
majority of males, as they feel that a female finds them worth extra
attention, and it is extremely flattering to them.
A flirting woman may also try
and get physically close to the man she is flirting with and let him
know she is flirting with him. This may occur during walks, while
sitting or having a standing conversation. However, her body language
may not always be sexually suggestive enough to draw conclusions about
her intentions, though some signs of flirtatious behavior are tilting
the head while talking, holding her hands behind her back when talking,
and touching the man’s clothes or person while talking.
A flirting woman is normally
only engaging in harmless behavior. If she wants a more than friendly
relationship, she will let the man know about it more explicitly.
However, men tend to misinterpret a woman’s friendly behavior and
perceive it to be flirting when actually it is not. In such a case they
should understand that a friendly woman does not necessarily mean a
flirting woman.