World Of Men

What Art of Seduction Is All About?

By James V

All people have different level of comfort when approaching strangers. For some people it is very natural to approach a person for whatever reason, and they can start an effortless conversation with anyone anywhere. Others find it incredibly difficult and nerve wracking to meet new people, not to mention flirt with them. Art of seduction is something that balances natural charisma and calculated effort. But, in fact, anybody can learn it.

Reading Signals

Art of seduction is largely based on your ability to read the signals of the person you are trying to flirt with. If you are rather on the shy side, try looking for clues that the person is giving in order for you to make contact. If you smile at them, do they smile back?

Do you catch them staring at you when you are not looking at them? If you see that the person you are attracted to is staring back at you openly, here is the door for you to make a contact.

If you are an extrovert you will need to heed closely to people’s reactions to you. If you walk up to someone and initiate a conversation do they give you one word responses, or do they attempt to engage? Also pay attention to body language.

Is this person turning towards you when you approach them, or is not changing their original stance, maybe facing friends? Art of seduction will only be successful if you are approaching someone who wants to be approached.

Moving into Flirtation

Once you can clearly see that someone is mutually attracted to you, or at least open to conversing with you, avoid speeding up things by flirting too quickly. You need to give people a chance to warm up to you. Let them know that you are interested in knowing something about them.

 

No one wants to flirt with someone they think is disrespectful or has ulterior motives. Ask them where they work, where they grew up. However, avoid hammering them with questions. The best way to get someone to talk to you is to volunteer information about yourself, while also encouraging them to talk back to you.

Use art of seduction in a way you would want to be seduced. Think about the last time someone gave you positive attention, and how this was achieved. Try to find a common interest, or choose an interesting topic to talk about. The art of seduction starts with your ability to make someone comfortable with you. Trust is an essential part of flirting and in art of seduction in general.